When People Fade, Let Them
You’re not losing anyone!
Hey people of my Laive, it’s Fayvour Rebirth here again! (Sounds like one of those video intros I used to make on Instagram, right? Maybe I need to get back to that... but hey, that's not why we’re here today!)
Let’s get into the business of today. This letter is something relatable, real, a little raw, and totally necessary. If you’ve ever had someone vanish from your life—someone who used to be your daily check-in, your safe space, someone who knew your mood before you even said a word—you’re going to feel this.
Isn’t it wild how, once you cut ties with someone, they just disappear? Isn’t it wild how someone who was once your daily oxygen can suddenly vanish?
Like, you used to talk every day, texting "hi" like it was your second language, you knew each other’s routines, knew each other’s moods without saying a word, your energies were synced up, and then… poof!! They’re nowhere to be found. No random bump-ins at the gas station, no spotting them at the store, not even in your social media circles anymore. It’s like the universe hit reset and sent them to a whole different dimension.
In your mind you are like, What’s happening here? What happened to my oxygen, though?
I know it feels wild, but the truth is that; They didn’t just vanish. They got dropped out of your timeline, no warning. 🫣
This isn’t some coincidence. This is alignment, dear Person of my Laive.
They fell off because they no longer fit where you're headed. The moment you start choosing YOU—quietly, confidently, unapologetically—people who aren’t meant for you simply can’t reach you anymore.
Not energetically. Not spiritually. Not physically.
And that’s why you should NEVER force any relationship that doesn’t make room for your peace, your growth, or your truth. Stop making someone your daily dose of oxygen. (For the record, only Jesus should be the air you breathe, okay?)
Misalignment isn’t just uncomfortable—it’s a straight-up danger to your future; they can throw your whole future off track. What might feel good in the moment can quietly derail your journey if you’re not paying attention. Trust me, you don’t want to take that detour.
If you hear me, say, “I hear you, ma!” 👏🏽
You're not here to shrink yourself for anyone. You're not here to shrink yourself to make relationships work. You’re here to evolve. You’re here to rise. To live a life that feels like truth, not obligation. To be unapologetically you. So when people fade away, let them. When your spirit no longer recognizes the room, don’t be afraid to walk out. It’s not a loss; it’s a shift. You’re protecting your timeline.
And here’s the thing—what’s meant for you will find you. It won’t come with confusion, with force, or with you betraying your own soul to keep it around.
Stay aligned. Stay elevated.
And don’t look back—you’re not behind. You’re just being refined, baby. And remember, what’s for you? It won’t miss you.
Drop a comment and let me know what hit you.
Share this with someone who needs to hear it. Thankkkk You!!!
Love,
Your Fayvouritegirl