THIS IS TWENTY FINE!!!

Surprises, Laughter, and New Beginnings

As I reflect on my 25th birthday celebration, I can't help but feel overwhelmed with gratitude for the wonderful moments shared with friends and family. It was a day filled with surprises, laughter, and a sense of excitement for the new season of life ahead.

Hello, people of my Laive! Welcome to our writing channel. Today's letter is more like a documentary of how my birthday celebration went. So stay with me so you don't miss out on the tea.

The Twenty-Fine celebration actually blew my mind; honestly, I wasn't sure of what to expect or what to do. A few days before my birthday, I was low-spirited. I wasn't feeling it; I wasn't feeling my pictures; I didn't even have any words for the new year; I didn't even have any captions. Everything felt gloomy. In the moments of my indifference and gloomy feeling, a special friend threw in encouraging words and reassured me, telling me I shouldn't worry but take every moment as it comes, these words I hung on to. For the first time ever, I just went with the flow, and I loved every bit of it.

10th April 2024!

A few hours into the new year, I was reflecting on my journey so far, and I couldn't stop singing and praising God with tears in my eyes.

The day began like any other, but little did I know it would turn into an unforgettable experience. I am surrounded by a handful of close friends and family members. Each moment seemed to hold the promise of something special.

I woke up to my parents' prayers and a round of worship, which is a regular tradition in my home. My mom kept asking God to give me a special gift this year; honestly, I hold that prayer so dear to my heart. My grandma was seriously praying that I would meet with my life partner this year. "God give Ifeoma her husband; let her marry!" she uttered as she flung her right hand into the air #Lmaoo!!!

After devotion, I paced to the room and sunk myself into my bed with my eyes prying into empty space, just then Bethel and Deborah came in to sing me a birthday song, and when they were done, they asked for my cake. I easily replied that I had no cake, “no cake, oo” . I haven't even finished my sentence when Esther George walks into the room with a beautiful cake. My Goodddd!!!! I wasn't expecting it, but it sure came in at the right time.

I know you will expect me to stay at home or go out to celebrate my day. But lo and behold, still driven by indifference, I went to the shop. I had to go to the store; remember, I was just going with the flow. I had no special plans for the day, so I went to the shop.

While attending to customers, I read every sweet message and post from my friends and loved ones. I got a beautiful video from my special friends saying sweet things to my ears, they also prayed for me; I don't take them for granted.

The highlight of the day came unexpectedly when a friend who stays far away called, “Hi, where is ABC Junction ”, Surprised “That’s the junction to my present location" I replied, "there is a delivery person waiting to give you a package” whilst this conversation went on, my thoughts gave way to the feeling that the delivery person could be the actual person on the call (my friend). I locked the shop and went to pick up the package. I was met with cheers and laughter as my friend revealed himself. I screeeeeamed; I'm sure he was embarrassed.

Honestly, I still have a lot of learning to do when it comes to keeping my composure in check when I'm met with surprises as this (it's not like I'm putting in the efforts), I can't handle surprises because I will misbehave.

He handed me a cute bag with a package inside and I was so happy, I didn't know what excited me more, if it was the package or seeing him after like forever. Precious, my sister, did this one because I didn't see it coming (I would later figure that Precious orchestrated the whole thing). I thought that was all until he was about to leave; he handed me another package and zoomed off. It was by the roadside that I was screaming. Your favorite girl disgraced this community and I'm sorry, but not sorry because I'm not trending on instablog #chukles.

I went home with a big bag of gifts, and my parents were surprised too. I got gifts from my best girl and from my mother-in-law (my customer at the shop). She gave me a cute bag, because I'm into bags, fah. I also got a cute neckpiece with a nice inscription on it and I love it.

Today was special; I've realized that I'm happier than I've been in a long time, and I feel peace as well.

13th April 2024!

Twenty-Fine Birthday Brunch

Today I had a birthday brunch with a few friends, less than the actual numbers invited because some stood me up, but I'm grateful for the ones who showed up. They made me feel loved, made me cry and made me laugh. Today was filled with different shades of emotions.

This birthday celebration was more than just a gathering; it was a celebration of friendship and love.

One highlight of this day was my souvenir. It came in so beautifully.

Another major highlight was seeing my friend Victor. We had a conversation the night before and said he wasn't going to come. I had planned how I was going to fight him afterwards, but little did I know that my guy had plans for me.

A few hours into the brunch, I noticed Elizabeth going out and coming in; she was on her phone beyond usual, and she came assuring me, “don't worry, people are coming”. I tried to get information out of her, only for me to see my guy walk in, looking all cute and charming. I jumped off my seat with a loud scream. The sheer joy of seeing him, despite his earlier claims of not being able to make it was enough to make my heart swell with happiness.

Thanks to my soul sister, Elizabeth and to my sister, Precious, for ensuring I had the best celebration. I love you both so much.

Twenty-Fine is sure going to be a great year for me. I may not always know, but God knows what He's doing with my life, God has a lot for me and I can feel it.

As I step into this new season of my life, I do so with a heart full of gratitude and excitement for all that lies ahead. I still have a long way to go but I'm grateful for how far I've come. I'm living in the phase I earnestly prayed for (not exactly, but it still counts): God's plans are better than mine after all.

I've had a lot of setbacks and losses, but look who's still marching forward. I know the wins Abba has for me are plenty. I felt it these past few days and I know there is more to come.

I'm going to embrace the uncertainty this year is going to bring, so this is me finding purpose in my everyday life. To live in what the future brings.

So I'm here to live my life profoundly while existing. 🥂

Cheers to 25 years and to many more unforgettable moments to come!

Yeah! Before I sign out, the picture you are about to see now is for your eyes only. So you'll be the first to see it and I need you to keep it a secret until I'm ready to share it. I want to see how many of you will keep my engagement a secret before I'd decide to go public about it. If you lose guard, I will sign you out of this community. #winks

Oh! You are still here? Alright here you go…

This is ABBA'S FAYVOURITE GIRL! (I love this picture so damn much, I can't tell what it is but it's giving Class) #chukcles

Your Queen 👑 Fayvourebirth!

My whole life is a collection of miracles.

This is the year, you make a name for God's kingdom.

This is the year you shine.

This is the year you win!!!

Congratulations 🎉