THE HEARTY CONVERSATION (T.H.C) EP. 2

Glorifying God in Unshakable Grief with Okosun Eunice

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Hello people of my Laive! Welcome back to T.H.C, where we explore the complexities of life and faith. Today we will be discussing about a very sensitive and emotional topic. We have a special guest, who has experienced unimaginable loss. She lost both parents and yet she stands before us as a testament to the power of faith and endurance. Today she will share her story with us and I hope you learn something.

You see, It is human nature to question God’s existence and power when bad things happen. However, “how do you praise and glorify God when the pain is beyond measure? How do you find the energy to sing God’s praise while your world is crumbling?” Today, we'll explore these questions and more with Eunice, who has walked through the fire and emerged with a deeper understanding of God's love and sovereignty. We'll discuss how to navigate the darkest moments, find comfort in Scripture, and discover a faith that is unshaken, even in the face of unimaginable loss.

Bio: 

Meet Okosun Eunice, affectionately known as EuEu. As a Christian in her early twenties, Eunice is passionate about her faith and family. 

Professionally, she is a Registered Nurse, and entrepreneurially, she expresses her creativity as a makeup artist. 

To the subject matter, she lost her parents January 2021 in a car accident, Eunice’s faith and resilience have only grown stronger.

In her free time, she enjoys good music and exciting experiences that bring joy to her life.

Hi Milady, it's so good to have you on this show, Thank you for choosing to do this with me.

HOW ARE YOU FEELING, HOW HAVE YOU BEEN?

Ans: I am good, I am fine.

HOW WILL YOU DESCRIBE YOUR FAITH JOURNEY?

Ans: ⁠My Faith Journey hasn’t been smooth, of course I am human, I make mistakes and most importantly still turn back to my creator, there are days I don’t feel like praying or studying God’s word but I try my best. He is all I have at the end of the day. 

HAS THERE BEEN PERIOD IN YOUR LIFE WHERE YOU FEEL LIKE GOD IS UNJUST?

Ans: ⁠Yes; because He is my father, so I go back to talk to him and ask him questions so He can fix things. 

WHAT HAS BEEN THE MOST CHALLENGING PART OF LOSING YOUR PARENTS?

Ans: ⁠Living without their protection or covering I would say, it hasn’t been quite easy but God has made it quite easy for us. 

HOW CAN YOU EXPLAIN GOD'S LOVE WITH SUCH DIFFICULT SITUATION?

Ans: Romans 8: 35- 39 In summary “I am convinced that nothing can separate us from the Love of God, neither death nor life” Gods Love is never ending. A Father to the Fatherless he calls Himself, how thoughtful, how loving, how dependable is He to us, the answer is totally, in every ramification.

WHAT ARE SOME THINGS THAT HAVE HELPED YOU COPE WITH YOUR FEELINGS SO FAR?

Ans: ⁠My Family ( brothers and loved ones), Music, and God’s word.

WHY DO YOU STILL CHOOSE TO REMAIN IN FAITH? You know some person's might have denied God cause of grief and all that, but looking at you, You are still bold about your belief, you are still serving Him.. Why?

Ans: ⁠He is all I have. 

DESCRIBE A TIME WHEN YOU HAD TO TRUST GOD AND WALK BY FAITH OR WHEN YOU SOUGHT GOD'S GUIDANCE FOR A DECISION? HOW DID YOU GO ABOUT IT?

Ans: ⁠There are so many scenarios, the one that comes to mind was when I was in 300level about to graduate and write my professional examinations not long from there, it was tough for me because i had carryovers to clear and the possibility to graduate was slim, I told my brothers about it, I was scared, I allowed fear get the best of me not untill I started clinical experience and I was all alone in the house where i stayed, I said to myself `I am not a failure’ I spent a better part of those days talking to God, worshipping is my weapon, crying and pleading. I wrote in my journal that i was going to graduate at the due date with my colleagues and pass my professional examinations without issues, God made it easy for me, before every exam/ pre-test, I would be scared. The most annoying part of this was that someone said in her words "people that are not even as smart as i am are passing the pre- test for the professional exam" and i would say to myself `Am i deserving of this?’ But my God who never wears flip- flop, the one who gives unprecedented, undeserved success came through for me, I became worthy, I finished at the due date, got licensed as an RN, RM, RPHN. I distant myself from negativity because it affected me a lot, I focused more on God totally through every examination and I succeeded in all. Christ taught me how to trust in Him,rely on Him, make better decisions and stay away from every appearance of doubt against myself. 

I realized there is nothing i cannot do if i set my mind to it and with God nothing is impossible.

HOW CAN WE TRUST IN GOD'S GOODNESS WHEN OUR CIRCUMSTANCES SEEM TO CONTRACT IT?

Ans: (Hmmmmm, pause a little, breathe) It can be so so overwhelming because you feel no one understands what you are going through, sincerely no one does, they claim too understand but they don’t, even in that state trust in God, He alone has the power to comfort and heal you of that pain eventually. Don’t allow the  circumstances write you off, rewrite the story and make yourself proud of you. There is nothing, absolutely nothing God cannot do. 

HOW DO YOU HANDLE YOUR EMOTIONS, Do you tend to cry in public when people talk about loosing someone or there's a way you comport yourself? 

Ans: ⁠Emotions!!!! It’s a feeling, in this case, one that is prone to anger and is feeling hurt as a result of grief/pain. I personally don’t cry in public but if it gets to me soo badly I try to comport myself, anything can trigger it. I try to focus my mind on things that would fill my heart with Joy instead of pain, even good memories sometimes can make one to cry in public sometimes. I just keep calm and distract myself from it.

TO ANYONE EXPERIENCING GRIEF, WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO HELP STRENGTHEN THEIR FAITH?

Ans: Trust solely on God , allow yourself to cry when you need to, ask God to comfort you, it’s not easy at all but God will make everything easy for you. Speak to someone if you need to (It could be a counselor or someone matured enough to understand the situation on ground), trust in God totally and ask Him for the Gift of men to help you through every phase of your new journey and He would help you through 💯, don’t isolate yourself, try to live and be happy. You need you to fulfill purpose.

 IF YOU ARE TO CREATE A MUSIC PLAYLIST FOR US, LIST 2SONGS YOU MUST ADD

• Eze Ebube by Neon Adejo

•  Thank You by Victor Thompson 

•   Bonus 😂  Ifunanya by Prinx Emmanuel

As we close this episode, we're reminded that grief is a journey, but it's not one we have to walk alone. Miss Eunice, thank you for sharing your story, your tears, and your triumphs with us. Your courage is a testament to the power of faith and the goodness of God, even in the darkest moments.

To our listeners, we hope this conversation has encouraged you to hold onto hope, to seek comfort in Scripture, and to glorify God, even in unshakable grief. Remember, you are not alone, and God is always with you.

Don't miss out on the next episode of T.H.C as we explore more stories of faith, hope, and resilience. Until then, may God's peace be your comfort, and His love be your strength.

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Thank you and see you next week

Love,

Fayvourebirth 💖