NOTHING IS A WASTE OF TIME!
Not that broken relationship, not that broken friendship, not that marriage—absolutely nothing!
Nothing in life happens for no reason; everything we are encountering in life is made manifest for a particular purpose: "Nothing goes for nothing!"
The hardest reality to come to terms with is realizing you're outgrowing your environment, friends, and loved ones. We hold these bonds so close because, in a way, they made us who we are, but they are no longer the same. The life you once knew will slowly drift away as you grow, and a part of you will try so hard and fight so hard to hold on, but you can't save it.
In life, we often attach ourselves to relationships and friendships, hoping that they will last a lifetime. However, sometimes, despite our best efforts, these connections do not work out. We may feel a sense of loss and waste, as if the time and energy we invested in these relationships were for nothing. But what if I told you that nothing is a waste of time? Even broken friendships and relationships can teach us valuable lessons and help us grow.
I've been with someone who clearly doesn't see me for who I am! I've been with someone who only received without pouring back into me. We seemed inseparable; it seemed like we would be together forever, but life had other plans for us.
As heartbroken as this may sound, everyone you know will not fill your chosen path. And you might want to beat yourself up by thinking, Oh! I've wasted a lot of time making this work; I can't afford to lose it, and we tend to forget that not everything you lose is a loss; some situations are meant to free you, and some experiences are meant to teach you. Sometimes it was meant to happen that way for a reason.
If you believe everything is a waste of time, you won't find beauty in growth and healing. You'll forever stay stagnant where you were left hurt.
Perspective is a powerful tool that can help us reframe our experiences and see the beauty in brokenness. When we view a broken friendship or relationship as an opportunity for growth rather than a waste of time, we can begin to see the silver lining.
Yes, life can be unpredictable and challenging at times; It's important to remember that not everyone we meet will remain in our life forever, and that's okay. Instead of giving yourself unnecessary stress and worrying over your past uneasiness, disappointment, heartaches, embarrassment and mistakes; give them chance to motivate you.
It's also important to remember that we can't control everything that happens in life, but we can control how we respond to it. We can choose to let difficult experiences shape us in negative ways, or we can use them as opportunities to learn and grow. Whatever must have been your past experience happened to you to become your weapon in building up yourself and your success.
In life, you fall out with people you never thought you would, get betrayed by people you trusted with all your heart, and get used by people you would do anything for. But life also has a beautiful side. It brings us new love and friendship, even when we least expect it. Keep an open heart and mind, and be open to new experiences and people. You never know what amazing connections and opportunities may come your way!
WORD FOR THE WEEK:
The biggest honor is living life as who you really are. Never having to perform as someone else for love or validation.
You're enough as you!
You are worthy and Deserving as You!
You can have the best of everything as You!
Being real is now a luxury!
Be You!
Till I write to you again 😉
Love and light,
Fayvourebirth.
Nothing is a waste of time.
Can someone in an abusive relationship let this sink in?
Can a guy who because of despair joined a group of bad wagons who later went to rob a home but was caught and sent to prison to rot forever accept this message?
Can a father who in his late 60s because of one reason or the other conducted a DNA test on his "supposed children" only to discover that NONE was his...can these words "nothing is a waste of time" comfort him?
Can the parents who have spent a fortune, invested in prayers and all that believe that nothing is a waste of time when they received the news that the children they trained to be medical doctors who are on the verge of graduation suddenly died in an automobile crash.
Yeah. "Nothing is a waste of time" looking at it from the perspective which you wrote from but when you look at the bigger picture, you'll discover that there are lots of things that are waste of time.
Some people have spent time and resources to build their relationships with someone else but at the slight dispute, the walls came crumbling because one or both parties chose to depict attitudes sponsored by pride causing one or both parties live in seclusion and loneliness. Was the relationship a waste?
Imagine a man who strives and works hard to make ends meet. Dedicated in his work but at the end of the day, there's no loved one for him to spend and enjoy his fortunes with. Isn't that a waste?
What is the futility of life?
It takes a lot of convincing and comforting for one to accept within themselves that nothing is a waste of time and that in every activity, occurrence, happening or story, there is something to be learned from there but I believe it takes much more for one to accept the fact that in this life, somethings are a waste of time.
N.B. My contribution on this subject is not to discredit you or your perspective about life but to make you look at the bigger picture.
Thank you once again for another stack and your consistency🌹More inspiration to you. I'm hoping to pitch here next week. Bye 👋🏾